*Be a Forward looking Person - Mrs Olubola Adeleye*
Every day we grow old.
Every day we make mistakes and learn from our mistakes.
Every day we move through the motions or jungle of life to find ourselves.
Some days, some people that we trust will betray us and it will hurt like crap and hell.
We have two choices.
1) Dwell on their betrayal, keep unforgiveness, resentment, anger, hurt, bitterness, sadness, heaviness, heartbroken, and hold on to what they did to us and refuse to let go.
2) Sit down to find out how we contributed to their betrayal. It takes two to tango. So, identify our own mistakes in the matter. After that, go to God in prayer to speak about the betrayal and give the heavy burden onto Jesus. Then, walk away from it. Don't remember it again. Carry on with pursuing your dreams in life.
The second option is forward thinking option that is the best to take.
Looking back on how people hurt us is backward and nobody needs that. You need to look towards your goal post or award or thorphy and you cannot see your goal post behind you. It is always in front of you.
On your journey in life, you will make some cock-ups or vital mistakes that you will regret for the rest of your life.
Don't dwell on mistakes in the past. They are gone. They may be due to youthful exhurburance or foolishness. It is allowed in some cases.
It is not allowed for you to commit adultery, beat your wife, waste the family's money on agbere or adultery or gambling. They are not allowed.
This is why I will advise you to get good mentors who will guide you on your way to greatness. The secret is to listen to your mentor and follow their advise. Their advise is never convenient but if you follow your mentors advise, your forward or future self will thank you for it.
Be a Forward thinker,
*Mrs Olubola Adeleye*
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